Sunday, September 17, 2006

5 stages of grief

For the last couple months I have audibly witnessed the majority of these stages as his divorce ensues and always after he's had a few beers. That is the only time he calls and usually from his garage. It is one thing to end a marriage but then to be so cruel about it is quite another. He may finally be to the acceptance stage but it still has to be so hard. He is one of the nicest people I have known and how someone who loved him can put him through it, I don't know. I think he is strong and sappy enough not to let it detrimentally affect subsequent relationships. If we could all be so lucky to have that attitude. Right now, he's got blue and right now that is getting him through.

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