it's not about the bathroom

Let's be honest. You don't really think a woman who is biologically a male, looks like a woman and dresses like a woman, should use the men's restroom, right? That's not the real issue. The real issue is you are a bigot and think trans people should not exist in the first place. You are unable to see past your narrow life views. "You" includes many, many family members. People I like. Life can be so disappointing sometimes.